Titanic: Forgive or not?

If I was on the Titanic and I was able to be saved but yet others that I loved had gone down with the boat then, I'm pretty sure that I would not forgive the people that had a way to save them. Yes, maybe I was one of the lucky ones to be able to get on a life boat to go back to safety but my family or friends could have died. The captain and the officers had a way of helping everybody but they choose to just go on and act like nothing had happened. In order to go on with their jobs they are responsible for the lives lost on the "Unsinkable" ship. They should have been held accountable for all the men, women, and children who had to suffer in the freezing cold water.